You're allowed to enjoy your life, even when there's parts of your life you long to improve.
I just wanted to send you a loving reminder of this Worthiness Principle because sometimes when an area of our life is feeling 'off' or not so great, we tend to punish our whole self and often without realizing it, we send ourselves the extremely damaging and destructive message that we suck.
This message gets sent every single time you hold yourselves back from enjoying your life.
You're allowed to celebrate moments, you're allowed to feel happy and alive and good, even in the midst of moments where some things in your life aren't feeling so great.
I hope you really think about this today and take it to heart because this way of treating (actually mis-treating) yourself is an extremely easy (and common) thing to do and it's also a major obstacle, blocking you from realizing any meaningful change in your life.
Think of an area of your life that isn't feeling so great. Now ask yourself, "Am I depriving myself from feeling good here because of this? Does it feel like I only have one foot in?"
This is the same concept as telling yourself, "When I'm more fit, when I lose ten pounds, when I make more money, when my relationship improves.....then I'll let myself feel good."
The 'when/then' mentality is always a zero sum game. You'll never win. And by win, I mean you'll never enjoy your life, you'll never know greatness, you'll never be truly fulfilled inside this unworthy was of thinking."
Where in your life are you holding yourself back from enjoyment? Maybe the cost of doing so is an exchange you're no longer willing to make?
I know (first-hand) that it's not always easy to change the way we're used to reacting to things, but I also know that changing the quality of your life is completely possible but it will never happen by way of depriving yourself from feeling good.
I hope you'll give yourself a chance to think about this concept (and how it's playing out in your life) deeply.
If you want help with this, I'm always here. Please don't hesitate to reach out.
love and light, xx Lori
ps. You are just as deserving of loving your life as everyone and anyone else.
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