Usually the biggest dragons we need to slay are our own deep issues around feeling deserving.
Amy Shumer's response to 'Why people sabotage relationships.'
"I don't know why people sabotage relationship but I know why I do.
I think it's the fear of getting hurt.
Even if you really like the person and they like you, there's usually some discovery that's a deal breaker. Sometimes you want to find out the thing that's going to hurt you so much that you almost create it. You can will it to happen.
And then believing that you deserve love; that you're not just disgusting and unlovable."
Oh Amy, how I love you so. You are exactly on point.
When you don't feel deserving of the kind of love you want most; you attract the person into your life who's going to prove it to you. This same principle can be applied to every single area of your life.
This, my friend is the proven Law of Worthy.
You will stop attracting the thing that hurts you the most, once you feel deserving of a different state of feeling.